Something Is Ending
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The Process
This is not something to show.There is no space for performing transformation.The body already began.It started to move on its own.To shift what was false.To stop adapting.To end the pattern of speeding up for others.It said:Enough.Enough pressure.Enough adjusting.Enough shrinking into shapes that are not mine.It costs everything false.No more proving.No more surviving others’ expectations.No more bending to be understood.I need to be brave for myself.To become who I am —
without others permission.
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From Softening to Standing
Before:I adjusted my words to be softer, smaller, easier to receive.Now:I start to speak in full tone.Before:I felt responsible for others feelings, cycles and chaos.
I absorbed — then translated — then broke under the weight.Now:I love, but I know - I cannot carry others.
This is not my field.
I am building real energetic separation — without abandoning anyone.Before:I had visions, tones, inner systems — but they lived only inside.Now:I stopped imagining and started incarnating.
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What Is True
This is not rebellion.
It is restoration.Not against anyone.
But for the self I’ve always silenced
in order to survive.⸻No more earning space through kindness.No more shaping my truth to be acceptable.No more being everything for others
while forgetting who I am.This time-
I am here for me.This is the beginning
of being true —
without asking who might leave,
because I no longer fold.
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Words for Repeating
I choose myself now, even if no one understands.
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Breath
Inhale
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I am allowed to needExhale
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I no longer ask permissionInhale
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I return to my own paceExhale
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I release their expectationsInhale
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I become who I amExhale
— Even if no one followsInhale
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This breath is mineExhale
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This life is mine
It’s quiet — but it’s the most real thing I’ve ever lived.The Process.
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Explanation
What This MeansNot every ending is visible.
Some endings are quiet, like the moment a tree stops blooming — long before the leaf falls.
An ending can be emotional, energetic, spiritual, relational, or internal. It might not involve words or decisions — only a subtle shift in truth.You may feel:Discomfort in places that once felt safe
Tiredness around people you used to energize
A pull to withdraw or breathe differently
Restlessness without knowing whyThese are often signs that something deep is closing.⸻Why It HurtsEndings aren’t just about loss — they are about identity.
When something ends, it can feel like a part of you is disappearing with it.
Even if the thing ending was painful, it held meaning.
It shaped who you became, how you protected yourself, how you dreamed.So you grieve:
Not just the event
But the version of yourself that lived inside itThat grief is sacred.⸻Why It’s NecessaryEndings make room.
Without endings, the soul has no space to shift, grow, or receive.
You don’t have to “be ready.”
You only have to be honest that the old way is no longer real.There is no shame in outgrowing what once felt right.
There is no failure in needing something deeper now.⸻How to Honor the EndingDon’t rush to rebuild.
Let what is falling away finish its fall.
Let the silence speak.
Say goodbye gently — even if you don’t have all the answers.Whisper the truth to yourself:
“This is no longer mine. And that’s okay.”⸻Gentle PracticesSit with your breath for three minutes a day and name what’s closing.Write a letter to what is ending, even if you never send it.
Use the phrase: “I thank you for what you gave. I release you from what you cannot.”⸻Final TruthSomething is ending.
Not because you failed —
but because you’re finally ready to live without what was never fully yours.
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Something is ending — not because you failed, but because you’re finally ready to live without what was never fully yours.